Posted by: outcrazyophelia | May 16, 2008

Okay, knock it off

I present to you: I know Black People–the CNN story

ATLANTA, Georgia (CNN) — Joshua Packwood knows what it’s like to be a minority. (This is where I should have stopped, but instead I pressed on)

“Because I’m one of the only white students, it’s easy to call me ‘the white boy,’ I’m naturally going to stand out,” says Packwood.

For those who don’t know him, what is surprising is that a Rhodes Scholar finalist turned down a full scholarship to Columbia University to attend the all-black men’s university. (Because who would want to go to a Historically Black College/University if they don’t have to amirite?)

This came naturally to Packwood, who attended a predominantly black high school.

“A large majority of my friends, like all my girlfriends have been minorities,” says Packwood. “So it was very, it was kind of strange that I always kind of gravitated to the black community.” (Fans self–truly, he is the wave of the future)

Adolescence was rough. His mother’s second marriage to a black man ended in divorce and family tension forced him to seek refuge with his best friend’s family - who were black and middle-class.

“I gained this interest in African-American studies and I thought that Morehouse would probably be the best experience,” says Packwood. “I think of it in terms of ’study abroad.’ If I really want to learn it, if I really want to understand it - maybe it’s best if I immerse myself in the culture.”

“One guy came up to me and told me — he didn’t like the fact that I was here,” recalls Packwood. “He absolutely didn’t like the fact that I dated black women.”

“I think that it should be a wake-up call to an all black campus,” says Muhammad. “At Morehouse we’re supposed to be at the top as black men. We only have a few white students and to see a white student will rise to this - is something unsettling to me because it shows that we need to work harder.”

Okay, so constant attempts to explain his connection to the black community? Check

Details about his “chiseled” good looks and how he’s managed to best all the darkies on campus? Check

I don’t know about you, but I really enjoyed the idea that black culture is a monolith and furthermore, it’s foreign and being immersed in it is like study abroad. A++++++++ Way to immerse yourself in “black culture” for at least four years, and come out patting yourself on the back for doing so. Clearly, he’s learned a lot.

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Posted by: manafanana | May 15, 2008

Graduating and Stuff

Outcrazyophelia and I are busy Graduating this week, and both of us are currently without our own computers, so posting may be slow for a bit. I at least should be back posting regularly by the middle of next week, so plz hang in there guys!

http://www.marriedtothesea.com/

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Posted by: outcrazyophelia | May 12, 2008

Text to give

Unicef, Amnesty International, and Starlight Star Bright are participating in a new text to give program run by paypal.

Also, apparently “Charities may receive $50 in matching donations from PayPal from now to June 30, 2008. Use the ‘Donate’ button.” I’m not sure how it works though, but I presume its automatic when you donate to a charity from now until June 30th.

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Posted by: outcrazyophelia | May 12, 2008

Habib’s wants you to know that all Arabs are the same, that’s right–they’re exactly alike. They are a monolith of bearded men and veiled women and that’s why you need 39 cent Bib’sfischa.

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Posted by: outcrazyophelia | May 12, 2008

It started with an “oh no they didn’t”

So first I saw this:

At first I couldn’t really tell what the ad was saying, but the bigger version has the website listed and I dutifully investigated.

Prior and during the European soccer championships due to be held in June 2008, we will inform a large audience about the trafficking of women specifically for the purpose of prostitution and, commit ourselves to a better victims and witnesses protection program

Expected outcomes

  • Information: People attending the Euro 08 and all related events must become aware of both the extent and repercussions of the trafficking in women.
  • Prevention: Anyone who comes in contact with a victim of trafficking must behave in a responsible and adequate way. Our focus will mainly be on raising awareness amongst men who are the most likely – as clients – to come face-to-face with victims of trafficking,
  • There is a lack of victims’ protection. This must change.Victims of trafficking need specific protection measures. These include safe accommodation and professional accompaniment. We aim to mobilize as many people as possible – before and during the soccer cup – in order to support this demand.
  • We aim to raise the awareness of men – for example of male football fans.The Euro 08 hosts a majority male audience. As potential clients of prostitutes, men might get in contact with victims of trafficking. We hope that as they gain awareness of the issue, they will act in a responsible way.

A separate section of the site is specifically for clients of prostitutes and instructs them of proper behavior if they think their escort is being forced. “Prostitution without compulsion and violence.

So, what do you think? Could you imagine such a campaign taking place during oh, say, the Superbowl? I notice that the original ad copy read “Stop Trafficking” I think that one was more clear if you’re just glancing over it. I saw in the comments on adsoftheworld.com that a lot of people were confused and thought it could even be referring to her gold chains or her shoes.

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Posted by: outcrazyophelia | May 12, 2008

How dare you bring science into this

Update to the Pill Kills post:

(I would like to point out that apparently science itself is part of the culture of death. Damn you science daily, damn you and your facts to hell!)

Apparently we’re part of the Culture of Death according to a Michael who says:

Dear pro-life friends,

As many of you already know, American Life League is launching a campaign to inform the public about the abortifacient nature of oral contraceptives. (If you don’t already know about it, please take a moment to check out www.ThePillKills.com . Also, be sure to join our facebook page and invite your friends! www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=34501835075 ) Some of you have blogged about it, and we’re gearing up for a full-court press on this initiative.

But we need your help!

In just 2 days, “pro-choice” bloggers have filled the blogosphere with their vitriol and Culture of Death rhetoric. In fact, one blogger went so far as to state his hatred for babies, while a comment on another blog indicated a desire to show up to a designated protest area to “mess with” us.

Just to give you a sampling of who is saying what, I am sending you a “short” list of Culture of Death bloggers talking about The Pill Kills website. I don’t recommend wasting too much time reading their nonsense, but it is worth noting their overt hostility to anything that “just might” change their worldview of “promiscuity-made-safe.”

We present information. They present virtiol. Why is that? Makes one wonder what they’re so angry about!

Your voice is louder than theirs because you have the Truth! So let’s fill the blogosphere with the Truth! Send e-mails. Tell your friends. Post The Pill Kills button on your blogs! Do whatever it takes … just don’t let them silence our voice for those who don’t have one.

As always, thanks for everything you do for the pro-life cause. Our efforts would be a lot harder without yours!

–Michael

paigedufour.blogspot.com/2008/05/oh-my-god-oh-my-god-oh-my-god-american.html

www.breadnroses.ca/birthpangs/2008/05/fetus-fetishists-flout-facts/

medical-news-now.com/Oral/?p=788

www.citizengirl.org/2008/05/protesting-sexual-freedom.html

mapp1.blogspot.com/2008/05/blogging-about-blog-crazy.html

pinkpoodledog.blogspot.com/2008/05/lies-that-rhyme.html

paginglucina.blogspot.com/2008/05/yet-another-anti-choice-movement.html

www.msmagazine.com/news/uswirestory.asp?ID=10984

feministing.com/archives/009140.html

imafeminist.wordpress.com/2008/05/06/i-also-have-the-right-to-not-acknowledge-your-stupid-ass/

roboticsquidling.blogspot.com/2008/05/whos-afraid-of-dr-john-rock.html

hangofwednesday.livejournal.com/7512.html

churchgalposts.blogspot.com/2008/05/other-shoe-drops-anti-choicers-dont.html

www.debatepolitics.com/abortion/31217-do-you-wish-abortion-argument-would-go-away.html

majikthise.typepad.com/majikthise_/2008/05/anti-choicers-w.html

the-morrighan.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-frighten-easily.html

www.jennyspennies.com/2008/05/07/136/

matthewyglesias.theatlantic.com/archives/2008/05/pill_kills.php

tarhearted.typepad.com/my_weblog/2008/05/the-pill-kills.html

darksideofthemom.wordpress.com/2008/05/07/seriously-seriously/

canofpowerup.wordpress.com/2008/05/07/the-american-life-league-on-why-i-love-contraception/

watchout5.blogspot.com/2008/05/overclocked-drama-youre-not-my-friend.html

www.ifeminists.net/e107_plugins/enews/enews.php?item.9888.5

eccentricbitch.wordpress.com/2008/05/06/29/

brokenrubbers.wordpress.com/2008/05/07/license-to-pill/

community.livejournal.com/cf_hardcore/3910896.html

www.celticbear.com/weblog/2008/05/06/the-need-for-proper-sex-education/

feminist.org/news/newsbyte/uswirestory.asp?id=10984

ginandkerosene.vox.com/library/post/separation-of-church-and-state-then-how-will-the-christian-right-push-its-propaganda.html?_c=feed-atom

pipersitemsofinterest.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-saw-this-and-i-wanted-to-puke.html

feminocracy.wordpress.com/2008/05/06/the-pill-kills-omg/

wombblog.blogspot.com/2008/05/and-you-told-yourself-theyd-stop-at.html

slog.thestranger.com/2008/05/federal_court_pharmacists_can_refuse_to

skemono.blogspot.com/2008/05/unless-contained-inside-each-pill-is.html

labkat.blogspot.com/2008/05/stupidity-kills.html

www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=

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Posted by: outcrazyophelia | May 12, 2008

This is his “friend”

Inspired by the post below. I’m in an interracial relationship, as a result, I’m not often what people expect to see when I’m introduced by my boyfriend and vice versa. Last weekend we went to an office barbecue. While I was introduced as “girlfriend” initially, as people filtered into the barbecue, the host introduced me as “friend”.  Meanwhile, the intraracial couples got introduced  as such “girlfriend” , “wife” , “fiancee”.  Meanwhile, I’m just a friend. I wasn’t sure how to feel, I mean at least they weren’t overtly hostile, but they decided to simply pretend that the situation in front of them wasn’t how it really was. It was really reductive and bothered me a bit–still bothers me.  I mean I don’t have to think twice about telling someone I have a boyfriend, but I may think twice about bringing him somewhere, or having him bring me somewhere. When people don’t see what they’re expecting, you tend to get some interesting reactions–but not many of them are life affirming and supportive of your choices.

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Posted by: outcrazyophelia | May 12, 2008

What’s the best strategy for being yourself?

Thinking About Coming Out at Work? What You Should Know Before Taking the Big Step

A recent Harris poll of 2,868 U.S. adults, of whom 350 self-identified as LGBT, revealed that 44 percent of LGBT respondents felt closeted at work and unable to talk freely about their partners or bring partners to corporate functions. An additional 34 percent said their partners are not considered for social functions. The poll was done in conjunction with Out & Equal and Witeck-Combs Communications.

No. 5: Is this the best time? Timing is everything. Remember, the company also needs to be prepared. If it is a busy time of year or there was has been a major shift in management, consider letting things settle before coming out.

How many heterosexuals do you think have to consider the company’s status before talking about that vacation they took with their loved one, or mentioning the fact that they’re married or went on a date last weekend when asked? Even the steps they provide don’t assure that you’ll get treated fairly or evenly as evidenced by another article: 7 Things NEVER to Say to LGBT Coworkers.

No. 5: “We are not close enough for you to share that information with me.”

Oh boy.

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Posted by: outcrazyophelia | May 11, 2008

No, I’m not dead

But I am in the middle of finals. I’ve mentioned before that I was in the middle of a (short) thesis, but that didn’t keep it from kicking my butt. It’s about the maintenance of hegemony in the retelling of black women’s stories of rape in the black newspapers circa 1889-1910. I’m reminded of the FFX battle with Yunalesca, it started off mildly threatening, then got a bit harder until finally:

Anyway, I finally submitted the final draft on Friday, and I’ve got a forty minute presentation on it on Wednesday. This is also the date I trade in my school issued laptop. We’ve had a love/hate relationship–but I’ll be sad to see it go, along with my time in an undergraduate institution. I hope to still find time to post, but presumably there will be a bit more time in between posts while I save up for a new, hopefully shiny and not as temperamental laptop.

Is anyone else graduating? Getting swamped by finals? Fearing they’ll never see the light of day again?

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NYPD Inaction Over a Missing Black Woman Found Dead Sparks a Historic Racial-Bias Lawsuit

Less than two months before Romona Moore vanished in Canarsie, Svetlana Aronov, the white wife of a doctor, went missing on the Upper East Side.

The day after Aronov vanished, police launched a massive search for her and the cocker spaniel, Bim, she had taken for a walk. The NYPD called a press conference, assigned two dozen detectives to the case full-time, and went door to door, passing out flyers with pictures of Aronov and Bim on them. The cops traced the Aronovs’ phone and bank records and analyzed surveillance tape gathered from stores and apartment buildings near her home. A police van emblazoned with the department’s 800 tip-line number drove around her neighborhood, blaring details of her disappearance over a loudspeaker. A letter was sent to rare-books dealers, a business the Aronovs dabbled in. Detectives reportedly even consulted a psychic.

A bloodhound was assigned to track Bim’s scent.

VS.

They told Carmichael that if Romona still hadn’t returned by seven that night, marking her gone for 24 hours, she should call the precinct. At seven on the dot, Carmichael called the precinct. A detective told her: “Lady, why are you calling here? Your daughter is 21. These officers should not have taken the report in the first place.” The next day, April 26, the complaint was marked “closed.”

When the police still failed to respond, the family contacted local politicians, who called the precinct demanding action. At 4 p.m. on Monday, April 28, some 93 hours after Romona disappeared, the police finally bowed to political pressure and officially opened an investigation. Detective Wayne Carey caught the case. By then, of course, it was too late.

Covered at Feministing, Feministe, What About Our Daughters, The Feminist Underground

Not previously covered here because I couldn’t come up with any commentary. I’m heartbroken that I have none, that this is par for the course and I fully expect the lawsuit to go nowhere. It kills me that this is a tangible part of the black experience, and no one ever really notices the difference in treatment, that people sit back and do nothing when it’s a black girl but fall all over themselves when she’s white.  It kills me that black women go missing every day, and its up to the parents to make it news, because otherwise it would never be (In fact there’s a blog dedicated to such a task). It fucking guts me every time I see this.

Actually what spurred this post was seeing a comment in a feminist community in reaction to the story stating, “Don’t get me wrong, this is horrific. But from everything I’ve understood of police protocols, missing persons reports of people over the age of 18 won’t get a whole lot of attention from police until 24 hours at _minimum_. Just a thought.”

When confronted, the poster then went on to offer that they hadn’t read “the rest of the article.” It’s much easier to presume that the reactions to this incident are unfounded than to read the article and find out why people are so upset. What’s another missing black girl? Those black people–always overreacting.  Frankly I’m sick to death of seeing this sort of shit in feminism.

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